Top 8 Ways to Keep Her Happy
You often hear that as time goes by, lovers/couples tend to take each other for granted, which often leads to the demise of the relationship. So, on your end, what can you do to ensure that you keep her happy? Read on and be confused no more.
Keep-Her-Happy Tip #1. Don’t pretend to be someone else.
It’s logical to ‘put your best foot forward’ during the courtship stage but be sure that she didn’t fall for someone completely different from who you really are. Remember that nothing can be sexier to women than a man who is relaxed and confident in his own skin. If you’ve already made the mistake of making her believe you’re different than who you are, then now’s the time to come clean. If you don’t, it would be near to impossible to keep her happy in the long run.
Keep-Her-Happy Tip #2. It’s true; it’s the little things that count.
When was the last time you brought her flowers? Most men think that to make their women happy, they need to splurge and give grand gifts. More often than not, you need only to buy her some flowers, or call her mid-day for no reason whatsoever, or buy her favorite candy, to make her completely happy.
Also, when was the last time you COMPLIMENTED her? A simply comment like “your hair looks great today” or “that blouse looks great on you” will keep her smiling all day.
Keep-Her-Happy Tip #3. Only have eyes for her.
Ok, I know that men like to look around at other women, but please do be cautious of your actions when you are with her. For you, this may be nothing at all but for her this is screaming “unfaithful!”. Women want partners they can trust and depend on… be that man by having eyes only for her when you go out.
Keep-Her-Happy Tip #4. Humor her!
Seriously, laughter is so UNDER-rated. Take some time to share a joke or two. It will make her happy and strengthen your bond.
Keep-Her-Happy Tip #5. Pick up a hobby you can do together.
When I mention this to other men, I get the classic roll of the eyes. However, there must be something you too like together. Otherwise, how did you ever get together in the first place?!? So, find some common hobby you can both engage in.
Keep-Her-Happy Tip #6. Take care of yourself.
Who says that it’s only women who ‘let go of themselves’ when they are in a relationship? Most men develop spare tires, annoying toilet habits and lose fashion sense along the way too. Here’s an exercise, take good look at yourself in the mirror. Compare this person to the guy she met when you started your relationship. How different are you now from that man? Be honest with your answer and see what you can and should do about it.
Keep-Her-Happy Tip #7. Get really acquainted with her friends and family.
You don’t need to fall in love with her family and circle of friends but you should at least show some effort in getting to know them. Your girlfriend/wife – and you for that matter –should not be put in a situation where she has to choose between them and you. It should feel like she’s adding you to her world. Besides, this can work in your favor too. During rough times, her family and friends can rally for YOU.
Keep-Her-Happy Tip #8. Keep things fresh and exciting!
Starting a relationship is always great because you have that giddy everything-is-new feeling. If you’re not careful, you and your partner can easily take things for granted, fall into a routine, and before you know it boredom is hitting you both hard! And this applies to inside and outside the bedroom.
As such, ensure that there’s always something new to experience and share. Take weekend trips to new places; continue taking dates, trying our different restaurants; and of course, explore your sexuality more and more by trying different positions, ‘accessories’, and so on.
Good luck!
Thursday, February 18, 2010
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
Do You Know These Underwater Sex Positions?
Safety First
Sex underwater may sound all slippery, sexy and yes, wet, but the truth is that lube—whether her own or the bottled stuff—will be easily washed away because of the water which can make things really dry and painful for you both. This is especially the case if you’re talking about the chlorine filled water of a swimming pool. So, what to do to keep things as slick as can be? Pick up a silicone or oil based lubricant and make sure you really slather it on and in before getting into the water.
Also, as far as safe sex goes in the sense that we know it; condoms are not tested for their efficiency in any kind of water, so aside from the fact that the water will wash away any lube or spermicide on the condoms, they may not even hold up under water. Just something to keep in mind.
And last but not least; please oh please DO NOT do anything that can prove dangerous to you or anyone else! Avoid the submerging of faces unless you are an experienced scuba diver and wearing the proper equipment. A little common sense will go a long way here.
And Now On to the Sex!
Underwater sex positions don’t necessarily include being completely submerged unless you’re going down equipped with scuba gear. If you’re just talking beach, swimming pool or hot tub play then these are for you.
In a Pool
Have her rest her back against the wall and use her arms to hold her up while she wraps her legs around you as you stand in front and get inside of her. This is great for public pools because you can still see who’s around but with subtle enough thrusts, you can do this in broad daylight without anyone being the wiser. This also works with her facing the wall of the pool and you taking her from behind. The water makes her weightless so you can really lift her into place.
At The Beach
You can always stand and pick her up; wrapping her legs around your waist as you enter her, but if you’re looking for something even naughtier and you have a flotation device of some kind (raft, dingy, water mattress), then this one is for you! Have her lie back on the dingy while you stand between her open legs and then enter her like that. You can grab on to the dingy and keep her just where you want her as you work your magic. It’s not fully underwater, but it’s hot!
In the Hot Tub
Since hot tubs are made for sitting in, it’ll be easy to take your seat while she takes her place on your manhood and rides you. She can do it facing you or with her back to you—both are HOT! Or, she can take a seat and lean back while you slide in almost on top of her and hold the ledge as you thrust.
And For the Deep Sea Divers…
It isn’t gonna be easy, but it ain’t impossible either! You can have awesome sex while scuba diving with a little determination. Here’s how:
You’ll need to get into as close to a seated position as you can and let her ride you so that her gear doesn’t get in the way or whack you in the face! If you can support yourself enough to lean back, the by all means let her sit with her back to you as she rides you. This will work better if she leans forward at the same time.
Aside from that, it’s back to the same old having her wrap her legs around your waist as you hold her up and enter her. Again, the weightlessness in the water will make it a lot easier so that you can enjoy the sex!
Sex underwater may sound all slippery, sexy and yes, wet, but the truth is that lube—whether her own or the bottled stuff—will be easily washed away because of the water which can make things really dry and painful for you both. This is especially the case if you’re talking about the chlorine filled water of a swimming pool. So, what to do to keep things as slick as can be? Pick up a silicone or oil based lubricant and make sure you really slather it on and in before getting into the water.
Also, as far as safe sex goes in the sense that we know it; condoms are not tested for their efficiency in any kind of water, so aside from the fact that the water will wash away any lube or spermicide on the condoms, they may not even hold up under water. Just something to keep in mind.
And last but not least; please oh please DO NOT do anything that can prove dangerous to you or anyone else! Avoid the submerging of faces unless you are an experienced scuba diver and wearing the proper equipment. A little common sense will go a long way here.
And Now On to the Sex!
Underwater sex positions don’t necessarily include being completely submerged unless you’re going down equipped with scuba gear. If you’re just talking beach, swimming pool or hot tub play then these are for you.
In a Pool
Have her rest her back against the wall and use her arms to hold her up while she wraps her legs around you as you stand in front and get inside of her. This is great for public pools because you can still see who’s around but with subtle enough thrusts, you can do this in broad daylight without anyone being the wiser. This also works with her facing the wall of the pool and you taking her from behind. The water makes her weightless so you can really lift her into place.
At The Beach
You can always stand and pick her up; wrapping her legs around your waist as you enter her, but if you’re looking for something even naughtier and you have a flotation device of some kind (raft, dingy, water mattress), then this one is for you! Have her lie back on the dingy while you stand between her open legs and then enter her like that. You can grab on to the dingy and keep her just where you want her as you work your magic. It’s not fully underwater, but it’s hot!
In the Hot Tub
Since hot tubs are made for sitting in, it’ll be easy to take your seat while she takes her place on your manhood and rides you. She can do it facing you or with her back to you—both are HOT! Or, she can take a seat and lean back while you slide in almost on top of her and hold the ledge as you thrust.
And For the Deep Sea Divers…
It isn’t gonna be easy, but it ain’t impossible either! You can have awesome sex while scuba diving with a little determination. Here’s how:
You’ll need to get into as close to a seated position as you can and let her ride you so that her gear doesn’t get in the way or whack you in the face! If you can support yourself enough to lean back, the by all means let her sit with her back to you as she rides you. This will work better if she leans forward at the same time.
Aside from that, it’s back to the same old having her wrap her legs around your waist as you hold her up and enter her. Again, the weightlessness in the water will make it a lot easier so that you can enjoy the sex!
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